We make relationships to enjoy life. Even it perhaps a lot of sacrifices to keep a relationship and to make it work, many of us prefer to make these sacrifices just to have near the person we love and like to spend time with.
Sometimes it happens that a relationship ends even that there is still love between the partners. This thing happens when one of the partners makes some regular mistakes and has a bad behavior towards the other. But usually the one who is guilty of ending the relationship are men who figures out too late how much he cares about the other and wants to change only after losing her.
There is nothing worse than being dumped by the one you love and believed was “the one”. Trying to get a woman back into your life is challenging. If you lost your true love because of you and want to get her back, don’t be desperate. Your situation is not necessarily hopeless.
At some point in life, we all lose something that we wish we held on to – in this case, you lost your love and you need to get your ex back. Getting back together with your lost love is not about “getting” them back or even relationship repair. It’s about winning them back. Winning them back implies a few important things semantically. It implies effort on your part as well.
First of all, call her and tell her that you want to see her. If she wants to have lunch with you, go for it so your ex notices that you are changed and that you thought about why she left you. Tell her she had the right because there are a lot of reasons why she left. Apologize sincerely.
If she doesn’t want to talk to you by not picking up the phone when you call her, surprise her by waiting in front of the office where she works and offer to walk her home when her program is over. But before that, assure that she does not have a boyfriend yet, because it might happen that someone else is waiting for her, so your chance is ruined.
Act like you just started dating and make her feel special. Be honest, and tell her that you still love her. Use the past to your advantage and let her know that anyone deserves a second chance, that things will be different now. Do not stalk her; she might think that you are very desperate. Just tell her that you are ready to make your relationship a priority in your life.
If you can get a date with her, be positive, laugh, and smile. Make her feel good. Subtly touch her when she’s talking. You must raise the level of attraction between the two of you if she still loves you; you know that she has a weakness towards you.
If she does not fall into your arms after your date, don’t give up. Call her often and tell her how you feel. Also, you can make something special for her, like sending flowers and buy her gifts. Don’t forget about the anniversary and birthday.
E-mail her and let her know that you are available any time if she wants to have a date with you. Also, assure her that you don’t frequent another girl and she is the most important for you.
Be yourself, show her that you don’t play games and your intentions are serious. Also, don’t be jealous if she has a date with another guy if she is now ready to get back to you and renounce to the other guy.
With these ways, a little luck and your charm can get your girlfriend back faster than you think.
